Research

Today topic :
i. 男生一般什么情况下会吃醋?
ii. 吃醋会有什么表现啊?
iii． 吃醋代表什么？
Add on : 在女生和男生还不是男女朋友关系的时候.
经过我一翻上网巡查。。答案如下：

Answer Part I as following :
感觉像更年期到了一样
a. 一般看到她与别的男孩说笑的时候，他会不高兴和很在意。
b. 如果别的男的欺负你的时候，他会和他拼命。
c. 看到你和别的男生在一起的时候。
d. 自己不被重视或者被认为无能的时候，但别的男孩却能帮到她。
e. 看到自己喜欢的女孩经常和别的男生在一起,而且有说有笑的,心里会感到很不爽,不是度量小,因为在意她,所以吃醋.
f. 看到她和其他男生说话!外表看起来无所谓,但是心里很急
g. 看见自己喜欢的女孩和别的男孩特亲密，就会吃醋

Answer Part II as following :
a. 生气，假装不在意的样子，但其实心里很不爽
b. 心情暴躁、容易发脾气
c. 他会装做不在乎,但会变得暴躁易怒
d. 时不时说一些气话啊，或是突然不理你啦，再不就装出一副无所谓的样子,但演的通常很烂.
e. 说话怪怪的，酸酸的。或者会变得沉默或突然跟其它女孩亲密。言行举止怪怪的。就是突然变得异常跟平时不一样
f. 感觉像更年期到了一样，哈哈。
g. 不理你，你要与他讲话，他会用别的语言来刺激你

Answer Part III as following :
a. 非常的重视她
b. 男人太过在意你了,他的一切注意力都集中在你一个人的身上。
c. 当一个男人全心全意地爱一个女人的时候他才很有可能出现这种情形，这很可能说明他非常喜欢你或爱你的。
d. 吃醋不是妒忌，吃醋是一个人对另一个人的爱的具体表现。是一种维护自己利益范围的本能反应。如果有人为你吃醋，千万别怪他（她），因为他心里很在乎你。
e. 就是表示他喜欢你，在乎你，想把你占为己有
f. 很简单.就是在乎你,在意你,怕你会被别人给抢走.
g. 说明他在乎啊，不然管你跟谁在一起呢
h. 有可能是太喜欢你了 怕别人抢走你

My Opinion：
i. 男生一般什么情况下会吃醋?
Me: 看到你和别的男生很好，看到你对别的男生好过对自己。
ii. 吃醋会有什么表现啊?
Me : 说话怪怪的，酸酸的..iii． 吃醋代表什么？
Me : 他在乎你。

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Thesis Title : The relationship between 欣赏，喜欢 and 爱

Chapter 2 : Literature Review

2.1.1 Dependent Variable : 爱
Definition :
i. 对人或事物有深厚真挚的感情
ii. 想拥有，想霸占，想娶或想嫁，希望自己能给他幸福，他快乐你就快乐，他心痛你就心痛，心干情愿的为他付出
iii. 喜欢到一定的份了,有点牵肠挂肚,是那种刚说再见就想见面的缠绵,情不自禁的在脑海里出现的那个人,让你想了后偷着笑偷着哭的那个人,你心甘情愿为他的乐而乐,千方百计让他开心的那种感受

2.1.2 Independent Variable : 欣赏
Definition :
i.自己跟对方平级，但只能站在远远的地方看着，不会有杂念
ii. 如果某一事物值得你去欣赏或者某一事物在你不经意中已经不自觉得吸引了你，这个过程的内涵就是欣赏的内涵。另一方面是在你主动或被动欣赏某一事物时，这一事物的特性肯定和你某些方面的特性有发生共鸣的地方。这也就是说“欣赏”一词是相互的，而不是独立的，欣赏品位的高低，不取决于某一事物而取决于你自身的品位
iii. 欣赏只是单纯的 比较看好着个人 感觉比较适合自己

2.1.3 Mediating Variable : 喜欢
Definition :
i. 喜爱
ii. 希望他开心，愿意为他做事，愿意跟他一起，但是不能为他付出
iii. 比崇拜和欣赏来得熟悉些,双方的了解和交往比崇拜和欣赏来得直接些
iv. 喜欢一个人是在深夜看书时突然想起他，想象他现在做什么，心里漾起一阵轻飘飘的温暖，却从不主动给他打电话

2.3 Proposed Theoritical Framework


2.4 Hypotheses Development

H1 : 欣赏会变成喜欢
H2 : 喜欢会变成爱

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We conclude that :
i. 欣赏，是喜欢的基础；喜欢，是欣赏的升华
ii. 喜欢是爱的前沿，更是爱的基础
iii. 爱是一种境界，一种甘愿为对方的无私，一份真诚守护的心，心中满满都被你爱着的人占据着. 喜欢就远远达不到这个层次. 爱是不太任何附加条件的，可是喜欢就有很的因素在其中. 但也不是全部的人都是这样的. 凡事都是因人而异的.

Conclusion :
Admire will lead to love, once there is a close connection and a long period of time. But it will never can be jump from admire to love, it need to went through like process to understand the person more well. After that, only you show up your love. So, guys... Dont ever simply tell a girl that you love her.. IS FAKE!!

Suddenlly

Well, suddenlly i saw back my last year blog..

A post that related to a girl.. Actually is me..

I am thinking how i past through my critical time alone..

How could i went through all those stuff..

Now, those stuff is like a dream for me..

A very very unforgetable dream..
Well, i tot u really forget but actually i just avoid..

Today, actually i have a dinner at Rawang which is held in that restaurant..

But i never go.. I scare.. Everytime, i step in the restaurant..

I stil cant 4get wat happen on me during the period that i work in there..

Is really very unforgetable... Really..

After that, i have my another relationship in foundation..

I tot i wil meet up a good guy that treat me very good..

Everything is fine, but actually is not..

At the end we break up.. I dont even know why we will break up..

But i am the one who say break up..

I feel he lie to me starting from the day he together with me..

I feel that he got another gf starting from the day he together with me..

Well, i never ask before.. Until now, i dun even know the answer..

People may think that it mayb a misunderstand??

But is wat he make me feel so..

Really.. I cant even understand and know what he think, wat he did..

I am just an outsider..

Wow.. Sherly dun emo.. Dun think about past..

What you have now is all get by yourself..

Is not easy to get back wat i lost and yet i did that..

I should think for future but not past..

GAMBATEH TO EVERYONE

Opinion

Hmm.. I just hear about my fren's best friends's love story..

Well, the guy almost want break up with the girl but i dunno why lah...

My firend thinking how to comfort the girl coz the girl crying non stop..

It let me think about why all the girls crying non stop when break up with bf??

Is like damn suffer and damn sad.. Is like cant live without the guy..

For me, i will tel them why you crying here because a guy that not love u??

Dont you think that the guy will change his mind?

Rather than you cying here, is better for you to think about your life after today..

Ask yourself that, izit he is very important for you..

Izit u cant a live without him??

Please dun asnwer yes, that will only bull shit..

Mayb in this time, u will feel very sad... I understand too..

I hope that you will awake that dont simple think or simply do something silly..

Through wat my friend tel me, she is really a weak girl..

Just want to tel her, this things only part of your life,

You stil got a very long way to go...

This guy isnt your future partner...

Rather than crying there, is better for you to tel yourself that u want to become a very confident girl that will make him feel regret that break up with you..

I believe that every girl had went through this process..

Even me too.. I went through too.. I trust that she also can overcome it..

If you hear about other people story, you will only realise that actually this is only a very small matter, doesnt affect your life much..

I always said that i went through a lot that normal girl never went through before..

Is really.. Mayb u all may think that i say only, but if i face it, i will not do that..

But i can only say i went through b4 and i did that...

~~~Realise~~~

Well, today i only realise something....

Actually, i write a lot of blog... But.. i draft all of it... Means never post...

Why?? Do you all did this??
I am thinking what is the purpose for blogging??
Can anyone answer me??
Do we really have our own freedom to write wat ever we want to express in our blog??
Let me tell you all the way i blog...
When i start to write a blog, i think how should i write? What should i write?
Will my writing affect people? Well, after that i start to write...
After i finish whole story, i will roll back, read from beginning til the end..
Correct spelling mistake, correct the way i write, correct the content i write, cut here, cut there... filer some sensitive issues... At the end, come out with a very good story..
Do you all did this?? Then wat is the point for blogging??
Really dun understand...

~~~Reality World~~~

Yesterday, i learn something from my bf again..

He alway is my adviser, thankz...

Term : Change myself rather than change people mind

Yesterday is a very panic day for me...

Suddenlly pop up something that related to me...

Hmm.. I really hope that i can express my feeling on the blog also...

But, i cant... I dont hope any misunderstand again..

Who can understand my feeling???

Thanks to those who really understand me...

Thie world is so unfair.. Is really...

I really agree what jing yi say.. Sometime, mayb because of my personality..

I very very stupid.. Everytime, i say something or did something,

I really think nothing will happpen, i really think nothing so serius...

But , at the end, actually that is not...

Why?? Why?? Why??

I have to strongly admit that i am a very straight forward person and i wont show face.

Thaty sometime i mayb hurt people feeling, but i wont like those keep silent, but actually mind thinking how to counter other people...

Yesterday, a lot of question pop up from my mind..

Why angry me? Izit my fault? Should you angry? Izit my problem? Why putting all the blame on me, but not him? Who care my feeling? Do you all care? Do you have problem? Why this world is so unfair? Why everytime, i am the one who say sorry?? Why evrytime is my fault?

In order to let myself to survive in this reality world,

I conclude that, i have to change myself rather than change people mind...

But i really dun agree... I really feel not happy...

I keep on asking myself why should i change?? Why??

爱的感觉~~适合的石头

爱的感觉，总是在一开始觉得很甜蜜，
总觉得多一个人陪、多一个人帮你分担，
你终於不再孤单了，至少有一个人想著你、恋著你，
不论做什么事情，
只要能一起，就是好的，
但是慢慢的，随著彼此的认识愈深，
你开始发现了对方的缺点，
於是问题一个接著一个发生，
你开始烦、累，甚至想要逃避，
有人说爱情就像在捡石头，
总想捡到一个适合自己的，
但是你又如何知道什么时候能够捡到呢？