Hometown Day

Friday i ady reach hometown lu...

Everytime, when i parking my car outside my house,

My little sister sure open gate and come out help me carry my stuff..

Is like her job ady... She sure say : 大姐，回来啦？我帮你拿东西。。

Therefore，everytime when i go bek hometown, i sure bring a small beg..

Let her to carry... If not she want to carry my laptop...

I stil remember got one time, she carry my laptop..

Then all the while walk into the house, she keep saying 大姐，很重啊。。

Then she fall down, i laugh until cant stop... She is so cute...

if one day i reach home, she never come out mean she is sleeping ady..

Once she wake up, she sure ask why i never ask her wake up when i reach home...

She just like my maid.. When i reach home, she automatically help me throw all the dirty cloth into the washing machine...

Then, if the fridge got any fruit, she sure tell me and take for me to eat...

She know that i like to eat "Bak Kut Teh"..

And yet, everytime i go bek, my mum sure never cook..

When dad ask what we going to eat for our dinner..

My little sister sure say "Bak Kut Teh" lah... 大姐喜欢吃。。

She even know which shop i like to go...

Recently, is durian season.. She know that i like eat durian also...

After dinner, she ask my dad buy durian for me..

Reach home keep on ask me to eat, but i still very fulll...

But have to eat lah... Telan saja bah.. Since she keep on ask me eat...

I feel very warm when i reach my house..

Is all because of my little sister...

Her cuteness melt my heart...

When i unhappy, she will ask me why...

Ask me dun unhappy... And ask me to play with her..

If i at home, she all the while wont go out.. Stay at home with me..

Even i just stay inside my room...

Without her, my family wont have hapiness..

Without her, my parents will lonely...

Altough she will very scare me, but she stil very close to me...

I sayang her a lot....

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Thesis Title : The relationship between 欣赏，喜欢 and 爱

Chapter 2 : Literature Review

2.1.1 Dependent Variable : 爱
Definition :
i. 对人或事物有深厚真挚的感情
ii. 想拥有，想霸占，想娶或想嫁，希望自己能给他幸福，他快乐你就快乐，他心痛你就心痛，心干情愿的为他付出
iii. 喜欢到一定的份了,有点牵肠挂肚,是那种刚说再见就想见面的缠绵,情不自禁的在脑海里出现的那个人,让你想了后偷着笑偷着哭的那个人,你心甘情愿为他的乐而乐,千方百计让他开心的那种感受

2.1.2 Independent Variable : 欣赏
Definition :
i.自己跟对方平级，但只能站在远远的地方看着，不会有杂念
ii. 如果某一事物值得你去欣赏或者某一事物在你不经意中已经不自觉得吸引了你，这个过程的内涵就是欣赏的内涵。另一方面是在你主动或被动欣赏某一事物时，这一事物的特性肯定和你某些方面的特性有发生共鸣的地方。这也就是说“欣赏”一词是相互的，而不是独立的，欣赏品位的高低，不取决于某一事物而取决于你自身的品位
iii. 欣赏只是单纯的 比较看好着个人 感觉比较适合自己

2.1.3 Mediating Variable : 喜欢
Definition :
i. 喜爱
ii. 希望他开心，愿意为他做事，愿意跟他一起，但是不能为他付出
iii. 比崇拜和欣赏来得熟悉些,双方的了解和交往比崇拜和欣赏来得直接些
iv. 喜欢一个人是在深夜看书时突然想起他，想象他现在做什么，心里漾起一阵轻飘飘的温暖，却从不主动给他打电话

2.3 Proposed Theoritical Framework


2.4 Hypotheses Development

H1 : 欣赏会变成喜欢
H2 : 喜欢会变成爱

This thesis topic had been done by sherly, pei ling and ah chui...
We conclude that :
i. 欣赏，是喜欢的基础；喜欢，是欣赏的升华
ii. 喜欢是爱的前沿，更是爱的基础
iii. 爱是一种境界，一种甘愿为对方的无私，一份真诚守护的心，心中满满都被你爱着的人占据着. 喜欢就远远达不到这个层次. 爱是不太任何附加条件的，可是喜欢就有很的因素在其中. 但也不是全部的人都是这样的. 凡事都是因人而异的.

Conclusion :
Admire will lead to love, once there is a close connection and a long period of time. But it will never can be jump from admire to love, it need to went through like process to understand the person more well. After that, only you show up your love. So, guys... Dont ever simply tell a girl that you love her.. IS FAKE!!

My Little Sister...

Hmm.. Suddenlly think about my little sister...

Everyweek, she will call and ask me when i will be going bek hometown..

After she know how to read number, she get my hp number from me and memorize it..

Keep calling me.. Now she become my second mum ady. Haha...

Conversation as below :

Little sister : 大姐，你几时回啊？干嘛这么久都还没回来的？

Me : 干嘛？还不懂，大姐要读书啊。没那么快回。。

Little sister : 为什么读书不能回来的？你回来啦，我很想念你。

Me : ok.. 大姐星期六回。。

Little sister : 几点？？ 不要很晚喔。

Me : 差不多下午就回到咯。。好啦，大姐要读书咯。。你去做功课啦。。

Little sister : 拜拜大姐

Through the above conversation, do u all think my little sister very kepoh..

Like my mum.. My mum also never ask me, but she eveyweek at least call me 3 times..

And yet, she ask back the same question...

This is my little sister... She like to act cute a lot.. Miss her...

Nvm, i going to see her soon...

MADM I Love You

Oh my god... I nearly crazy because of you..

MADM.. I Love You so much...

Why you treat me like that??

Can let me undertsand you more??

Understnad you better and better??

You seem like hiding everything from me...

Please tell me the truth.. I really hope that i understand you more and more...
Please give me a chance.. Just a chance...
What you had tell, i cant even understand..
Your word is too hard to understand..
Can make it simple and easy to understand??
I put all my effort on you.. Hope that you really understand...
MADM, i love you and i will never give up on you..
Jia You!! Jia You!! Jia You!! Jia You!!

Suddenlly

Well, suddenlly i saw back my last year blog..

A post that related to a girl.. Actually is me..

I am thinking how i past through my critical time alone..

How could i went through all those stuff..

Now, those stuff is like a dream for me..

A very very unforgetable dream..
Well, i tot u really forget but actually i just avoid..

Today, actually i have a dinner at Rawang which is held in that restaurant..

But i never go.. I scare.. Everytime, i step in the restaurant..

I stil cant 4get wat happen on me during the period that i work in there..

Is really very unforgetable... Really..

After that, i have my another relationship in foundation..

I tot i wil meet up a good guy that treat me very good..

Everything is fine, but actually is not..

At the end we break up.. I dont even know why we will break up..

But i am the one who say break up..

I feel he lie to me starting from the day he together with me..

I feel that he got another gf starting from the day he together with me..

Well, i never ask before.. Until now, i dun even know the answer..

People may think that it mayb a misunderstand??

But is wat he make me feel so..

Really.. I cant even understand and know what he think, wat he did..

I am just an outsider..

Wow.. Sherly dun emo.. Dun think about past..

What you have now is all get by yourself..

Is not easy to get back wat i lost and yet i did that..

I should think for future but not past..

GAMBATEH TO EVERYONE

Opinion

Hmm.. I just hear about my fren's best friends's love story..

Well, the guy almost want break up with the girl but i dunno why lah...

My firend thinking how to comfort the girl coz the girl crying non stop..

It let me think about why all the girls crying non stop when break up with bf??

Is like damn suffer and damn sad.. Is like cant live without the guy..

For me, i will tel them why you crying here because a guy that not love u??

Dont you think that the guy will change his mind?

Rather than you cying here, is better for you to think about your life after today..

Ask yourself that, izit he is very important for you..

Izit u cant a live without him??

Please dun asnwer yes, that will only bull shit..

Mayb in this time, u will feel very sad... I understand too..

I hope that you will awake that dont simple think or simply do something silly..

Through wat my friend tel me, she is really a weak girl..

Just want to tel her, this things only part of your life,

You stil got a very long way to go...

This guy isnt your future partner...

Rather than crying there, is better for you to tel yourself that u want to become a very confident girl that will make him feel regret that break up with you..

I believe that every girl had went through this process..

Even me too.. I went through too.. I trust that she also can overcome it..

If you hear about other people story, you will only realise that actually this is only a very small matter, doesnt affect your life much..

I always said that i went through a lot that normal girl never went through before..

Is really.. Mayb u all may think that i say only, but if i face it, i will not do that..

But i can only say i went through b4 and i did that...

~Transformer & Clubbing~

Well, yesterday i went to midvally to watch Transformer 2 at 8pm..

I reach thr a bout 6pm.. Then, looking present for my firends..

As what jamie say, July we all going to pk..

A lot our friends' birthday is on July.

For me, i got 6 friends' birthday is on July.

And yet i just bought 3 presents..

Hope you all will like wat i present to you all..

Look at the picture below... Is barbie which wearing bridal veil...

She look pretty and cute...

After, we finish our show about 10.45pm, we went clubbing at Poppy in KL..

This is the first time that i go clubbing without drinking any alcohol...

All the way, i just drink sprit and coke...

Clubbing place is really damn suck..

Here are some pictures during clubbing...

Bani and his Gf (Joan)...

Me and Beng kim..

Joan and Me..

Hoho, last but not least... Is me here...

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